MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,200+)

• First date is about getting them more interested not scaring them away with your troubles

  I was enjoying a first date on a nice lunch meeting. We seemed to be hitting it off just great. Mid into the lunch I ... For detail, click here.

• If you are going to claim that you are classy and sophisticated, please provide at least some appropriate photographic and anecdotal evidence.

  1. There is nothing more irritating than reading a profile asserting the ambition to find someone for a serious relationship and family, only to find ... For detail, click here.

• Never Ask for a Second Date Before the Dinner

  Neither person on the date should ask for a second date before the dinner check arrives. Asking for a second date before the check arrives ... For detail, click here.

• Don't send "Winks" - Get Better Results!

  Nothing kills the excitement of getting a notice of a message waiting, than to see that it's a "wink". The fact that it's a wink ... For detail, click here.

• For strong independent women - what to text back, write back, how to speak to men on dates

  Hey ladies, I hope you all take the time to read this post because I wish I had read it a few weeks back. I'm ... For detail, click here.

• Wash your hands

  Hygiene is one of the most important things I look for on a first date (well any date). There was a time where my date ... For detail, click here.

• Finding out their likes or interests and acknowledging them will make your messages stand out

  Try being "out of the box" or original with your introduction message to someone. Take the time to look at their profile and note a ... For detail, click here.

• Fill out the "Questions for my matches" section with something fun and insightful.

  Clearly, we're all in the same boat when it comes to trying to find a relationship after our diagnosis. That being said, there are different ... For detail, click here.

• If someone opens their private album to you and you do not like what you see, then leave a message or comment stating thank you but no thank you.

  Everyone has their dating preferences here. Whether it's race, height, hair length etc., we are entitled to like what we like without judgment. However, if ... For detail, click here.

• Watch for discrepancies

  I’ve encountered lots of fakes, scammers, and game players on dating sites. There are obvious things to look for like asking for money early on, ... For detail, click here.